Notification of Death to Others
Request for Cone of Silence
while there's no wrong way to mourn, name 's wishes included maintaining a cone of silence so those near and dear could first be personally notified. We request you adhere to this by not posting to social media about this until date and time
The notice should include a "where to find all the things we were working on" (online links as well as color coded files from laptop),
the ceremony services will be announced via location.
Self-Organizing or Notification Space
It might also make sense to set up a space for these folk to self-organize and grieve together - I suggest the talk page for my profile on OSC, another mailing list, or an IRC channel.